Genuine Curiosity

Author Dwayne Melancon is always on the lookout for new things to learn. An ecclectic collection of postings on personal productivity, travel, good books, gadgets, leadership & management, and many other things.

 

My pod's afire

I recently had the pleasure of chatting with Lisa Haneberg about focus, energy, and getting employees engaged. She recorded it (yes, I knew she had a tape rolling) and has it posted on Management Craft as a podcast. We talked about some effective (and ineffective) corporate "focusing" exercises I've encountered.

If you'd like to give it a listen, head on over and hear the fireside chat.

This, of course, is part of an ongoing series of podcasts she's running in conjunction with the release of her new book Focus Like A Laser Beam, which I reviewed a little while ago (see the full take here).

Keep the fire burning, Lisa.

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Fear the Weasel

Laugh, learn, cringe. Seldom does a book evoke such a combination of reactions. But that's what I got from the book "Warriors, Workers, Whiners, & Weasels: Understanding and Using The Four Personality Types To Your Advantage," by Tim O'Leary. I also came away with a better understanding of Weasels.

The book is an easy and fun read -- O'Leary's style is very comfortable and entertaining. The book is also loaded with great stories and examples.

What's your "W"?

The gist of this book is that each of us fits in one type within the "circle of life." In O'Leary's model, they're all defined by a "W" word. Here is how I paraphrase each of these types in the book:

  • Warriors - People who drive people to do things (and get results themselves). High ego, high integrity, highly competitive.
  • Workers - The people who respond well to the warriors to get things done. Point-and-go, get things done people - supporting cast that help the movie stars do what they do.
  • Whiners - People who have lots of excuses for not getting things done, and it's never their fault. Organizational cancer.
  • Weasels - Sneaky, two-faced people who never take responsibility for their immoral / amoral ways. High ego, low integrity - wolves in sheep's clothing, often deluded into thinking they are Warriors.

The book helps you determine your type (I'm a Worker), and has some guidance on how to deal with other types and maximize the value of your type - assuming you are a Warrior or a Weasel, at least.

Well Worth the Read

This is a fun read, particularly if (like me) you've worked with or for Weasels and don't quite know how to deal with them (for Warriors, I think this is easier - but not for us Workers, who tend to be more on the 'keep the peace' end of the scale). O'Leary's office is a few blocks from mine in Portland, Oregon and I wonder if we happen to know some of the same weasels.

Some of my favorite sections:

  • "The Way of the Weasel: Four of My Favorite Weasel Stories" (this alone is worth the price of the book!)
  • "Get Over It! Five Rules to Live By to Avoid Being a Whiner"
  • "The Weasel Tax: The High Price We All Pay for Rodent Infestation"

And, if you have your own weasel story to share, you can do so at "www.exposeyourweasel.com" - an irreverent companion blog.

O'Leary's own blog is a more reverent resource, if that's more your style - check out his recent post on "The Whining Effect" for a taste.


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[Review] Focus Like a Laser Beam

On a recent flight across the country, I devoured a terrific book. The book was "Focus Like a Laser Beam : 10 Ways to Do What Matters Most," by Lisa Haneberg. As you'd expect from a book with a title like that, the book itself is very focused and un-fluffy, though it contains a lot of poignant stories about the advantages of focus, and the disadvantages of unfocused activity.

In the 90's, I was involved in an organizational change initiative in which there was a lot of discussion about "getting all the wood behind the arrow" as a metaphor for focus and alignment. Lisa takes us a giant leap forward in her book, using laser light's focused, aligned, and congruent particles as mental model to remind us to focus our goals, thoughts, and actions on specific goals to accelerate our success.

Part One: Excite and Energize

The first section of the book begins with methods to assess your individual focus, as well as how to assess your organization's level of focus toward a unified set of goals, then discusses how you can create a stronger connection with your employees and peers by tapping into the power of emotion and openness in your communication.

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What a coincidence...

As you may have noted from a couple of my posts this past week, I've been thinking a lot about laser beams and focus (following my LASIK procedure).

I laughed out loud at the coincidence when I received an email from Amazon yesterday that my advance copy of Lisa Haneberg's latest book, "Focus Like a Laser Beam: 10 Ways to Do What Matters Most" just shipped yesterday. I'm confident I'll be as pleased with Lisa's book as I have been with my LASIK.

I've been a big fan of Lisa's work for quite a while, starting with her book, "High Impact Middle Management" which was one of my favorites from last year. I then participated in the pilot of her "2 Weeks 2 A Breakthrough" pilot program last summer, and was even more impressed with how she works and thinks.

From some early clues from her about this latest book, I'm glad it'll arrive just in time for a flight to Houston this week. Check out Lisa's new book - and check out her blog Management Craft if you haven't already done so.

Congratulations, Lisa!

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Interesting Finds

"It's about results, not activity." ...I used to think that was a good code to live by but, at some level, it kinda bugged me."It's about results, not activity." This is a phrase I hear quite often -- in fact, it's a favorite mantra of many leaders I admire. I used to think that was a good code to live by but, at some level, it kinda bugged me. Thanks to "Measure of a Leader" by Aubrey C. Daniels and James E. Daniels, I know the truth.

I've been waiting for a long flight so I could read this book, and got my chance last week on a trip to New York last week. According to the foreword, this book is the culmination of about 30 years of learning and experience, and I found it to be an insightful look at leadership techniques and measurement. The philosophy is similar to that of "servant leadership" that is all the rage. Consider one of the major models presented in the book:

"You are a leader only if you have followers. While this seems obvious, its implications are not. It suggests that the focus of any study of leadership should be on the relationship between the leader and the followers, not just on the leader..."

"Our model posits four criteria of the followers' behavior that define leadership:

  1. Followers deliver discretionary behavior directed toward the leaders goals;
  2. Followers make sacrifices for the leader's cause;
  3. Followers tend to reinforce or correct others so that they also conform to the leader's teachings and example;
  4. Followers set guidelines for their own personal behavior based on their perceived estimate of that which the leader would approve or disapprove."

The book goes into a lot of detail about each of these areas, then goes on to provide specific techniques to increase your ability as a leader by setting the right example, evangelizing your vision, creating organizational norms that reinforce the behaviors that drive toward your goals, etc.

By now you may be saying, "Yeah -- whatever. That sounds like about half the management books I've ever read." Well, I'm happy to report there's a lot of new stuff to be found here. For example, there are some excellent techniques to measure and track your leadership effectiveness, and provide a basis for improvement. There's also a rich collection of advice to help creat more meaning and connection in your followers' work.

But what really brings it together are the examples and stories illustrating the principles and techniques. This approach not only makes this book a fun read (it could easily have been as boring as a stock prospectus), it helped me envision how I could personally apply these to my own life.

There is a great discussion about the leader-to-follower impact when you reward for the right kinds of activity, even if they don't yield "results" (though one could argue that organizational and individual learning are a type of result).

Net, net? Leaders get results by inspiring the right kind of activity in their followers. In other words: It's about results and activity.

If you're in a leadership position, and want to improve the state of your art, check this one out.


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