Genuine Curiosity

Author Dwayne Melancon is always on the lookout for new things to learn. An ecclectic collection of postings on personal productivity, travel, good books, gadgets, leadership & management, and many other things.

 

Old school awesome

Ok, so my birthday is coming up in a few weeks and I know what I'm going to start hinting at - this awesome Bluetooth accessory for my mobile phone!

Yep - that's a Bluetooth handset for use with a mobile phone, courtesy of Thinkgeek. I would love to walk around talking on that thing!

What? You say your phone doesn't have Bluetooth? No problem - Thinkgeek has you covered there, too:

.(And no -- this is not an April Fool's joke!)

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Do you bear the mark of a professional?

My pal Bren (formerly the proprietor of SlackerManager and now the proud pappy of BikeHacks) recently pointed me to an awesome thread on "How to be a True Professional."

The thread starts with a sincere question, "What makes someone in a true professional...?" and the ensuing comments are very wise. I encourage you to go and read them.

If I were to summarize what I've read - and weave in what I've learned on my own -- here are some of the "precepts" that pop out from this long list:

  • Be rational: Think before you act.
  • Be reasoned: Don't act in anger or vengeance.
  • Be pragmatic: Remember that business is about what's best for the business.
  • Be human: Remember that numbers don't always tell the whole story.
  • Be magnanimous: Give others due credit (and the benefit of the doubt).
  • Be tolerant: Remember that others can learn from their mistakes.
  • Be humble: Remember that you can learn from your mistakes
  • Be accountable: Do what you say, and keep commitments.
  • Be respectul: Demonstrate respect and foster dignity for yourself and others.
  • Be open-minded: Learn something new every day; and consider the perspectives of others.
  • Be steadfast: Don't compromise your principles.

But don't take my word for it - go read the list. Got any to add? Think I'm blowing smoke? Would love to hear more in your comments on this post.

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Incremental Advantage

A few weeks ago, I received a copy of "The Power of Incremental Advantage" from its author, David Wanetick. This is a fascinating book, and its premise is summed up by the title: "How Incremental Improvements Produce Dramatically Disproportionate Results."

In essence, this book is about consistently seeking small advantages to enable you to achieve greater success. It reminds me of a quote I heard a long time ago, "The more I practice, the luckier I get." This book is partially about being prepared to seize the moment when opportunity presents you with an advantage, and partially about taking actions to create more situations in which you benefit from an incremental advantage.

Object lessons

The first section of the book is filled with some thought-provoking stories, through which Wanetick gives examples and object lessons of when a slight advantage has made a significant difference in various events. There are examples from entertainment, retail, finance, world politics, and myriad other sectors -- each providing great illustrations of the power of incremental advantage.

The second section analyzes the common traits of the world's most successful people. Some of these will sound familiar (know your strengths and actively develop them, concentrate on placing yourself in contexts that favor success, etc.) but Wanetick does an excellent job of adding some meaningful color to these ideas, again through some engaging stories. There are some excellent nuggets of advice here in a bunch of topic areas, including personal productivity, planning, preparation, financial strategies, and negotiation.

Create your own advantage

In the last section of the book, we get down to brass tacks. In this section, Wanetick offers a great collection of advice, tips, tricks, and philosophies to help you create your own incremental advantages in your life.

These range from where to sit in a meeting, how to manage others, how to "network" more effectively, how to be more productive, how to deal with stress, how to use your gestures and posture as an advantage, and a broad assortment of other topics. This is awesome stuff, (again) illustrated with memorable stories.

A few of the many stories I loved:
  • How Microsoft was created by an innocuous contract clause
  • How Bill Clinton managed to get his picture taken shaking hands with President Kennedy.
  • The analysis of how JFK's superior choice of clothing helped him trounce Nixon in a Presidential debate.
  • Wanetick's advice on staying out of the "Networking Quagmire."
  • Secrets of productivity as demonstrated by UPS.
  • Traits of Lucky People.
  • ...and more (way more!)

Advice from the author

I was intrigued by this book, as well as the long (and fantastic) list of reading recommendations at the end of Wanetick's book, and I wanted to dig in a bit more. I was lucky enough to have the opportunity to talk with Wanetick for a few minutes the other day, and asked him for some key take-aways from his book. Here is a paraphrased recap of some of the things he told me:

"I want people to understand the power of small things -- the power in the little decisions we make every day. By learning from the stories in my book, and trying to implement some of the advice in this book, people will begin to create advantages for themselves and see better results in their lives."

"Through subtle actions as simple as where you sit in a meeting, you can significantly influence outcomes. Understanding the power in these actions and becoming more conscious of their cause & effect enables you to achieve your results more quickly and with less effort, no matter what results you are seeking."

Summary

I really liked this book, and I suspect you will, too. You can find this and more resources at the book's site.

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10 / 10 / 10

On a flight this morning, I was chatting with a gentleman sitting next to me. He shared a recent learning (he called it a "guidepost") he adopted recently. I thought it was interesting:

A mentor of his told him to think in terms of "10, 10, and 10" when making decisions in life:

Consider the impact of your decisions and actions, and how they will affect your life in the next 10 minutes, 10 months, and 10 years.

I thought this was an interesting construct to help gauge the importance and relevance of decisions, and will begin trying to adopt this myself. In some cases, this may change my decisions, in others it may reaffirm them, but I think it's good food for thought in any case.

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Bless this mess?

In its contest (going on through February 25) the company "MyFax" wants to know: How messy is your office?

If it's messy enough, you could walk away with $10,000.

To enter, all you have to do is take a photo or video of the glorious mess that is your workspace and upload it to their contest site by noon EST on February 25, 2008. A hand-picked team of organizationally-challenged experts will select the finalists, and then open it up to the public to select the winner from among the finalists. Results will be announced Monday, March 5, 2008.

The top prize is $10,000, so this could be your chance to make some serious bucks here. MyFax will also be awarding additional prizes totaling $5,000 to the other finalists.

After you've submitted your picture or video and want to get things organized, Ariane Benefit's got a guide to help you - I reviewed it a few weeks ago - you can check out the review ("Whip your office into shape") here, as well as find out how to order your copy.

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